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Why Acting Like a Happily Divorced Guy Could Save Your Marriage
I’m a happily divorced man. The divorce came first – then the happy. Pain first – then growth. It just doesn’t happen for us the other way around. This is true for any guy who attains happily divorced...
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Why Treating Your Wife as Your Equal is a Mistake
Have you ever heard yourself saying things like: “Why can’t she just see how irrational she is being?” “Why won’t she just tell me exactly what she wants?” “She has no clue how hurtful she is being –...
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She’s 49 and She’s Done with Romance and Sex
The Conversation I Have 100 Times a Year Steve: So what’s been going on? Client: It’s more like what’s NOT going on. She says she not feeling sexy anymore and doesn’t really need affection, romance or...
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I Wish My Ex-Wife Could See Me Now!
“I’ll probably never be able love anyone like I loved, Jessica.” Paul told me this a few weeks after his divorce from his wife of 18 years. The last year of his marriage was an exhausting struggle as...
View ArticleMy Wife Wants Space – What am I Supposed to Do Now?
Let me guess. It didn’t sound quite like this. Sweetheart, I love you and I don’t want you to think anything is wrong at all because we’re doing great. I just wanted to ask you for a little space this...
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How to Bring Radical Honesty Into the Marriage Counselor’s Office
I get to hear a lot of stories about men and marriage counseling—most not very good. This is because a lot men of kind of suck at the counseling process. They are way too passive and simply follow the...
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Sexless Marriage: Is Sex So Important You Would Leave Me and Our Kids?
Bill and Sarah were at it again. Over the last 15 years it seemed this conversation had no end. But that didn’t stop Bill from trying. Bill: “We can’t just keep going on like this!” Sarah: “Like...
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The Sad Reality Your Wife Will Know Two Years Before You Do
— I thought I was all alone. I thought I was special. But over the years my clients have proved me wrong. This happens nearly every day. There is a very definite trend with marriages that end with the...
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50 Critical Tips from Happily Divorced Guys to Our Married Brothers
I’m a happily divorced man. The divorce came first – then the happy. Pain first – then growth. It just doesn’t happen for us the other way around. This is true for any guy who attains happily divorced...
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The Simple Solution for More Sex that Feels IMPOSSIBLE to Implement
This isn’t complicated. Constant bickering creates a simmering, resentful energy that kills your sex life. This bickering can only occur when two or more people participate. You have the absolute power...
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How to Know if She Feels Like Your Wife…or Your Girlfriend
Bob’s happiness was infectious as he excitedly told us about his new girlfriend he met since his divorce a year ago. He showed up to our bi-weekly men’s group meeting with a skip in his step. We...
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How IT Workers (And Other Techies) Unknowingly Piss Off Their Women
I’ve got a lot of clients who are IT professionals, engineers, doctors, lawyers and other techie types who are apparently misunderstanding something I teach. There is an important distinction I want...
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Man up? When Can I Tell Her to Woman Up?
It’s tough always being the man in your marriage. Guys often tell me they are asked to be the man by their wives who claim to need more of this and less of that. “Pay attention to my needs and do that...
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Why Expecting Her to be “Equal” is Messing Up Your Marriage
Have you ever heard yourself saying things like: “Why can’t she just see how irrational she is being?” “Why won’t she just tell me exactly what she wants?” “She has no clue how hurtful she is being –...
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How to Cut the Emotional Umbilical Cord and Have a Happier Relationship
I know your eyes are drawn to the Emotional Umbilical Cord graphic below and you’re thinking, “WTF?” Look away…look away. I have a point to make. My message applies to both men and women, so ladies,...
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7 Things to NOT Do When She Says She Wants Space
I spend a lot of time with men who are just now discovering the possibility of separation or divorce. Every man wants the same thing. He wants his wife back. He wants her to love him again. He wants...
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What a Golden Retriever Can Teach Us About LIVING the Life We Want
I want to talk with you about living in the kind of life and relationship you really, really want. I didn’t say “getting” the life you want or “having” the life you want. What if you just DECIDED...
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